Contributions to the tribute of Trevor Owen Tracey

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Brandy Davis posted a condolence

Thursday, August 10, 2023

Well, I’m not really sure what to say here other than I am heartbroken! My thoughts and prayers go out to the Tracey family, Marr family and all of Trev’s other family and friends. It has taken me over a month to try and process the fact that I will never hear his voice again, see his cheeky smile and receive one of his amazing hugs! I have know Trev for 23 years and he was always someone I could count in no matter what. We were there for each other in the good times and the bad, but we always made it through the other side. I honestly thought this would be the same. Trevor touch so many lives and could make friends in a heartbeat, even on a bus going to Cuba or walking down the road or going for some wets! We met so many amazing people together who I also consider my friends and he allowed me to be part of his family as well. He was all about his family and could never spend enough time with them or tell stories about them. I have missed you and will miss you every day for the rest of my life Trev, and I can’t tell you how happy I am that Ayla was able to meet “Uncle Trevor” and spend time driving all over the place drinking coffee (water for Ayla) and stopping at small restaurants in the middle of nowhere to eat. She is far to young to understand what is happening but she will always know about her “Uncle Trevor” and how much he meant to me and how he changed my life forever! Sharon, Terry, Kevin, Teanne, Doris, Randy, Day, Annie, Brenda and all the “kids” who are no longer kids and extended family, thank you so much for allowing me to be part of your family and lives. Rest in peace Trevor and I know you’re loving the time with your Mom and Dad! Have a “Tracey double” for me! I love you my friend, you’ll always be in my heart!

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Doris Melvin posted a condolence

Thursday, July 20, 2023

Epitaph By Merrit Malloy When I die Give what’s left of me away To children And old me that wait to die. And if you need to cry, Cry for your brother Walking the street beside you. And when you need me, Put your arms Around anyone And give them What you need to give to me. I want to leave you something, Something better Than words Or sounds. Look for me In the people I’ve known Or loved, And if you cannot give me away, At least let me live on in your eyes And not your mind. You can love me most By letting Hands touch hands, By letting bodies touch bodies, And by letting go Of children That need to be free. Love doesn’t die, People do. So, when all that’s left of me Is love, Give me away.

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Kate Nelson posted a condolence

Friday, July 14, 2023

I keep trying to write something, say something, post something and there is just nothing that does any justice. I can hear his laugh and feel his hand in mine. I keep checking my phone for that good morning text and articles from the BBC on the latest global political crisis and then it hits me all over again that he’s really gone. If you were lucky enough to be loved by Trevor, you were in a pretty great club and I hope to consider myself to be in their good company. I’m so grateful for the past 10 years, even the not so good ones. I’m grateful that Trevor came into our lives when we needed it the most, was a father to my children and healed us in ways I’m not sure he understood. I’m grateful for him being at every dance lesson, ball game & swimming practice. For being the guy who cared about the science projects, homework, school Halloween dances, Christmas concerts and birthday parties. And for agreeing that we definitely needed Penny. (Who I’m pretty sure was the actual love of his life). I’m grateful for charcoal bbq, ramen, pho, breakfast for supper, leftover turkey egg rolls, beef bourguignon and pink meat. For every vacation and adventure. For every boring moment and every cup of coffee. I’m so very grateful for these last few years of reconnecting, skiing, Chinese food, formula 1, Time Team, long car drives where the only destination was somewhere with good food, but first, coffee. And maybe most of all, for the long chats through long nights in hospital rooms about all the things that we ever wanted or needed to say. For that I am incredibly grateful. My heart is so full that it’s spilling over and running down my cheeks. You might not be able to recognize my gratitude because grief is love with no place to go.

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Kate Nelson uploaded photo(s)

Wednesday, July 12, 2023

I keep trying to write something, say something, post something and there is just nothing that does any justice. I can hear his laugh and feel his hand in mine. I keep checking my phone for that good morning text and articles from the BBC on the latest global political crisis and then it hits me all over again that he’s really gone. If you were lucky enough to be loved by Trevor, you were in a pretty great club and I hope to consider myself to be in their good company. I’m so grateful for the past 10 years, even the not so good ones. I’m grateful that Trevor came into our lives when we needed it the most, was a father to my children and healed us in ways I’m not sure he understood. I’m grateful for him being at every dance lesson, ball game & swimming practice. For being the guy who cared about the science projects, homework, school Halloween dances, Christmas concerts and birthday parties. And for agreeing that we definitely needed Penny. (Who I’m pretty sure was the actual love of his life). I’m grateful for charcoal bbq, ramen, pho, breakfast for supper, leftover turkey egg rolls, beef bourguignon and pink meat. For every vacation and adventure. For every boring moment and every cup of coffee. I’m so very grateful for these last few years of reconnecting, skiing, Chinese food, formula 1, Time Team, long car drives where the only destination was somewhere with good food, but first, coffee. And maybe most of all, for the long chats through long nights in hospital rooms about all the things that we ever wanted or needed to say. For that I am incredibly grateful. My heart is so full that it’s spilling over and running down my cheeks. You might not be able to recognize my gratitude because grief is love with no place to go.

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Dianne Dort pledged to donate to Atlantic Cancer Consortium

Tuesday, July 11, 2023

I'm so sorry for your loss Big hugs, Butterfly

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Jackie McClure posted a condolence

Monday, July 10, 2023

It’s taken me some time to find the right words to express my sorrow over the loss of Trevor. I first met Trevor 11 years ago at Darryl’s 50th birthday party. Some of my greatest memories include Wednesday night darts, listening to Darryl, Brenda and Trevor with their quick wit and sarcastic comments making us all laugh but unable to keep up with the Tracey humor! I’m forever grateful for the closeness we shared, the mutual love and respect we had for each other. There’s so much that I will miss, so many memories that make me smile. One of Trevor’s greatest passions was his love of gaming. He would talk about Dave, Wrath (Dennis) and Jocelyne all the time and how much fun they had playing. After a couple of years of him saying, “you should play, you would like it” (with that mischievous grin of his) I finally gave in and started playing World of Warcraft. He wasn’t wrong, it’s been 5 years and hundreds of hours gaming with some awesome people that I call my friends. I’m going to miss our discord chats with immature behavior, inappropriate comments and laughing so hard that all of us literally couldn’t talk or breathe. I’m going to miss mornings on the boardwalk in eastern passage having coffee, sitting in the sun watching the ocean, afternoons at Kanpai Izakaya eating Okonomiyaki, ramen and other Japanese food, while drinking ice cold Sapporo, planning our trip to Japan. We were so excited for that trip, we had everything planned out, including visiting the city of Sasebo, where his dad had visited during his time in the Navy. Unfortunately Covid and cancer had other plans and we never did get to make that trip. Hopefully someday I’ll get there and when I do I know he will be with me. Trevor made everyone’s lives a bit better for knowing him. His laugh, wit, intelligence, his love for his family and the people closest to him, his dedication to his work with First Nations people, his love of life and taking each moment like it was the last is what made a him a very special and loved man by many. Sharon, Doris, Brenda, Darryl and Kevin, I’m so very sorry for your loss and heartache. I admire the dedication and love you showed him this last 14 months and would expect no less of you all. Fair winds and following seas Trevor. Thank your for the memories, you will never be forgotten. Jackie❤️

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Dennis "Wrath" Show posted a condolence

Friday, July 7, 2023

Cinderella had a hit song called “You Don’t Know What You Got (Till It’s Gone)”, and while that may have been true for that ballad, it is my belief that it was not true for those that knew Trevor. Brooke Hampton (some person I don’t know) is quoted by saying, “I am pieces of all the places I have been, and all the people I have loved. I’ve been stitched together by song lyrics, book quotes, adventures, late night conversations, moonlight, and the smell of coffee.” For Trevor, I would amend this by adding movie quotes, long drives, and gaming with friends. I will miss the discord chats about music, movies, games, and the giggles at whatever random, juvenile things that our weird man-child brains would think of. Netting Tink to stay in game for two hours longer than she intended with a simple sentence was the work of a devious genius. Nerding out over WoW transmogs and Diablo just won’t be the same, and while I’d like to say, “I won’t be doing that.”, we all know, “Yea you will.” Rest easy my friend and I’ll leave you with the first verse and chorus of “Monsters” by James Blunt (slightly amended): Oh, before they turn off all the lights I won't read you your wrongs or your rights The time has gone I'll tell you goodnight, close the door Tell you I love you once more The time has gone So here it is I'm not your son, you're not my father We're just two grown men saying goodbye No need to forgive, no need to forget I know your mistakes and you know mine And while you're sleeping I'll try to make you proud So, Trevor, won't you just close your eyes? Don't be afraid, it's now time To chase the monsters away

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Darrell and Beth Nelson posted a condolence

Friday, July 7, 2023

We extend our deepest sympathy in your great loss. Trevor had a quiet presence. Anyone who met Trevor will remember him. To all ,take care and find solace in your many loving memories. Sincere condolences , Darrell and Beth Nelson

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Shaun Perry posted a condolence

Friday, July 7, 2023

My sincere condolences to the family and friends of Trevor. It has been about 20 years since I last saw Trevor having first met him during the summer of 1989 in Victoria, BC where we were there for our first Navy Reserve trade course. Trevor was a Signalman, and I a Diesel Mechanic but despite being in rival trades, we became good friends getting up to doing what sailors do. We also made two memorable road trips to Ganges Island and Tofino to check out the rain forests and hang out on some amazing beaches. It would be a few years later that Trevor and I would meet up again in Halifax where our friendship continued and at one point, as roommates in an apartment on the corner of South Park Street and Fenwick Street. We went in different directions as I continued in the Navy and Trevor pursued other interests, but our paths would continue to cross from time to time. I am very saddened to hear of Trevor’s passing that has sparked many happy memories of his calm, cool, and collected manner that always made for a good time during our adventures. Trevor you were a good friend, rest in peace old buddy.

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David Fox-Schreiber posted a condolence

Thursday, July 6, 2023

I knew Trev for nearly 20 years, most of them virtually. We spent hours and hours laughing, talking about politics and just plan nerdy things. We met in person just once when my, at the time boyfriend now husband, came up when he and B lived in an apartment. We spent a few days going to his favorite pubs, being introduced to real poutine and laughing - oh, boy, did we laugh. Many online knew Trev as Akipa - an acronym, as I discovered, for one of his favorite brews - Alexander Keith's India Pale Ale. If I'd had to assign Trev an acronym, however, it would have been NSFW. He could take any situation and turn it on its head. I hope there's beer wherever you are.

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Ellen Hillman lit a candle

Thursday, July 6, 2023

So sorry to hear of the loss of your brother. He will be missed.

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Brian Moore posted a condolence

Wednesday, July 5, 2023

What can you say about Trevor, as soon as he came into a room he could make you smile. Our two families go so far back I can't remember what year it was. I do remember that both our mother's played on the same bowling league. One of Trevor's say ING to my wife Tina Moore was you are my salt and I am your pepper. I didn't see him in the later month's but I will remember his big smile and laughter. My thoughts and prayers were with him since I heard he got sick, apparently he was needed somewhere else but he has his mother in her arms again to look after him. RIP my younger brother from another mother. Your family is strong and will always have you in their hearts. RIP from Brian and Tina Moore.

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Ann E Swain posted a condolence

Wednesday, July 5, 2023

My sincere thoughts are with you - Doris, Sharon, Brenda - and to all the Tracey family. I hope to see you very soon. Hugs, Ann Swain-Robicheau

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Melanie Moore posted a condolence

Wednesday, July 5, 2023

Our deepest condolences on the loss of your dear brother. We hope the beautiful memories you share of Trevor will help you through this difficult time. Sending you warm hugs Tom & Melanie Moore

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Darryl Tracey Posted Jul 5, 2023 at 7:14 PM

Thank so very much Melanie and Tom. Your words of comfort are truly appreciated.

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Darryl Tracey posted a condolence

Wednesday, July 5, 2023

My dearest brother Trevor. Words cannot convey the pain and the broken heart that I have since your departure. The impact you had on, not only me but Annie and Marcus, was insurmountable. I know your impact on Marcus’s life was enormous and he considered you, not only a great uncle, but a great mentor. for which I couldn’t ask more of a brother of your stature. Your intellect was surpassed by none and our shared passion for deep, thoughtful discussions and the betterment of the indigenous community will stay with me forever. Know that your light will always shine and guide me through the tough times ahead. And, although the emptiness and void will never be filled, my memory of our cherished times spent together will always put a smile on my face. Love your best friend and brother Darryl.

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Rebecca Whiffen posted a condolence

Wednesday, July 5, 2023

Trevor was a beautiful soul. He had a zest for life, a curious intelligence and a loving spirit. Our deepest condolences and all our love, Karl and Rebecca Whiffen

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Saturday, July 1, 2023

In loving memory of

Trevor

1969 - 2023

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